Approaching the Challenging Conversation of Home Care

By 9  am on

Watching your elderly loved one’s health decrease may be difficult, and discussing the need for in-home care may be even more challenging. However, to protect your loved one’s health and safety, you need to have this discussion sooner rather than later. Here are some tips you can use when bringing up the difficult conversation of home care with your loved one. 

Keep an Open Mind 

Do not go into the conversation with mandatory requests. Instead, take the time to hear your loved one’s opinions. Keeping an open mind and seeing things from his or her point of view might make the discussion go a lot smoother. Losing independence is never easy for seniors, especially if they are shut out of the decision-making process. Always have an open mind when it comes to choosing a caregiver and developing your loved one’s daily schedule. The more you understand your loved one’s needs, the easier it may be to make adjustments pertaining to this challenging discussion. 

One of the most challenging tasks of helping an elderly relative age in place safely and comfortably is researching home care agencies. West Hartford families can turn to Home Care Assistance for reliable, high-quality in-home care for aging adults. We offer 24-hour live-in care for seniors who require extensive assistance, and we also offer respite care for family caregivers who need a break from their caregiving duties.

Ask Others to Step In

When seniors see the benefits of caregiving up close, they may be more open to having the home care conversation. Invite some other elderly family members or friends to come over to have the discussion with you, pointing out all of the benefits they now receive. Some seniors resist home care because they feel it is too expensive. However, you can have friends come over and explain how cost-efficient and effective home care is for their parents. When other people step in with actual testimonials, your loved one may not be so reluctant about discussing the topic. 

Have Multiple Discussions 

In a perfect world, this would be a one-time discussion. However, this is rarely the case. You can begin having the conversation early on, giving your loved one some time to think. When you discuss home care again, he or she may have some questions or suggestions you should consider. The more control you give your loved one, the less challenging these conversations will be going forward. 

Every senior has different needs when aging in place. Some simply need occasional assistance with household chores, while others may be managing a serious illness and require more extensive 24-hour care. West Hartford seniors can count on Home Care Assistance to provide the in-home care they need and deserve.

Focus on the Advantages Instead of the Limitations

Talk about all of the health and safety benefits your loved one could receive from home care. When you approach the conversation with perks and advantages instead of discussing the limitations and necessities, it may be more appealing. If your loved one enjoys going to social activities in the community but is no longer up to driving, make sure to speak about the benefits of having someone to provide transportation to and from the house. You should also talk about the benefit of having someone cook meals and clean up around the home instead of discussing your loved one’s decreasing health.

Hiring professional in-home care is one of the best ways to ensure your senior loved one enjoys a high quality of life. West Hartford home care experts are available to provide high-quality care to seniors on an as-needed basis. From assistance with mobility and exercise to providing transportation to the doctor’s office and social events, there are a variety of ways professional caregivers can help your aging loved one continue to live independently. To schedule a free in-home consultation, call one of our professional Care Managers at (860) 323.3462 today.


Request Free Information or
Schedule a Free in-Home Consultation